Family members are a
great gift but at times we can all be overwhelmed by the people we love most.
It was easy to distract ourselves from our obligations to our family when we
were using. With that being said now that we have received addiction treatment
through AIA, AA, or other forms of addiction rehabilitation and are sober, we are
able to show up. We now have tools to
deal with any overwhelming feelings that may come up for us when we deal with
our familial issues. We also get the opportunity to right our wrongs and clean
up the wreckage of our past. When we were using most of us were isolated from
our family and entangled in this disease, but now that we have our life back we
get to show up and give back to our family. We get to be present and loving. We
get to repair our relationships and see what we can bring to the table instead
of seeing what we can get out of the situation. Even the most broken
relationships have been repaired through sobriety. If we continue to do the
work it takes to stay sober we will be able to fulfill our obligations to our family.
We were not the only ones that suffered from this cunning, baffling, and
powerful disease. Now is our chance to share the gifts of sobriety with the
people that stuck by our side, loved us, and who matter most.
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